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This TEDx talk from Houston researcher/storyteller Brene (like the name “Renee” but with a B in front) is one of my favorites so far. At first, I thought it dealt with something I’m particularly grappling with right now—feeling vulnerable—but one of the points Brown makes is that everyone is grappling with this, all of the time. Apparently, being alive means being vulnerable. Um, how can we avoid this?? We can’t, says Brown. Nevertheless, she is a charming woman and her insights are fantastic. What’s weird is that it’s stuff you already know, on a gut level at least, but it’s presented in such an impactful way, it helps you get clear on what the challenge is (i.e., not numbing yourself to being vulnerable but instead embracing it).
I love that people like Brene Brown are out there in the world. I love that the TEDx talks bring people like her to me and to everyone. I wish I could just sit here all day, watching these talks. But after a point, I would just be numbing myself from the vulnerability I feel when I am instead working, creating something, right? Right.
If you’ve already dived into some task or endeavor today that makes you feel vulnerable, and you’re feeling those feelings without trying to numb yourself, I salute you.
I think this was the first Ted Talk I ever saw (several years ago) and it changed the way I see people profoundly. It also started my addiction to Ted Talks, but this is still #1.
Eric, they are so addictive. Like injections of positivity!
Wow. Good lord I needed to see that. I felt like crying several times through the damn thing and not just because I’m PMSing. I need a counselor.
Also, her speech pattern reminds me of Karen Anderson. At first I thought she reminded me of Wendy because she was a researcher with a background in social work but then I kept hearing Karen. Okay, maybe I’m just at a point where all intelligent women remind me of my friends. Anyway, I loved it.
Kelly, I want to watch it again. A friend told me her book, Daring Greatly, is really good, too, so I’m getting it. Karen! Interesting! I can see it.